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  • Brené Brown is wrong about compassion.

    “As it turns out, we can’t practice compassion with other people if we can’t treat ourselves kindly.” – Brené Brown That just isn’t true. We can. I am only recently practicing self-compassion, but was taught early in life to be compassionate toward others. I felt it deeply as a child thanks to my parents and…

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  • Tips for breaking generational cycles, Part One

    These suggestions are from the perspective of stopping the cycle with the next generation in mind. If you do not have children, these remain useful for your own well-being and those around you.  Acknowledge that an unhealthy generational cycle exists. Whoa! You’ve already broken denial!! Celebrate that! Identify the cycle and pay attention that there…

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  • Series: What trauma does to you – The Exaggerated Startle Reflex

    With an exaggerated startle response, if I see someone out of the corner of my eye or someone comes up on me unexpectedly, I jump, sometimes shriek, my heart hammers, and my breathing is rapid and shallow. I feel like I’m jolted into taking flight, and just as fast, I can’t move and freeze. It…

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  • The Green Bench

    The Green Bench

    My award-winning short film about a mother coping with the onset of her son’s schizophrenia is back on YouTube and Vimeo. Thank you so much for your support.

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  • Speak up

    Speak up

    When the Trump administration began to separate children from parents at the border, I knew some of those children would be sexually abused. It’s happened. Inevitably. And to a six-year-old girl. Any time you isolate children from the adults who love and protect them, disaster is inevitable. It doesn’t matter if it’s being done by…

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  • The Link Between Child Abuse, Depression, & Mental Health

      Another wealthy and famous person is dead from suicide. How much depression or Kate Spade’s mental health played a part is speculative until those closest to her decide whether and how much they want to discuss it. And how much they knew. Someone with depression can be an expert at appearing fine. She was…

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  • It is finished!

    Easter reference intended. I finished a draft of my memoir and it’s out to beta readers (think beta testers) until my editor is ready the end of June. Beta readers offer general feedback so you get an idea whether the book works and to what degree. The next phase is rewriting, which I generally enjoy…

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  • when the demons win…

    3 years ago. He’s helped so many of us with depression, etc.

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  • Originally posted on The Rising Phoenix Review: Mother of All Bombs Last night’s nightmare ripped my family apart flesh from bone forcing me to choose my life or theirs. Waking up to a family intact I couldn’t shake the feeling that in an instant it could all implode. By Noriko Nakada Biography: Noriko Nakada writes,…

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  • We are Short of the Week!

    Happy to announce that The Green Bench is Short of the Week on the LA Shorts Fest site and a Staff Pick. If you have not had a chance to see it, you’ve got one week before it goes back behind the password curtain! We have more festivals to hear from this year before we make…

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